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Have you ever been in a situation where you discover that your partner have been using you to cheat on their relationships?

I have been in that situation before, and it happened a girl meet me, and was always wanting me to come over her house, or just make phone calls with her, somehow and finally, we started a relationship with her.
After been in the relationship for almost a month, that was when the truth came out from some close friends to her and they told she that she have a boyfriend they are together with, and she was just using me to cheat.

I became angry, sad and just pissed up about the whole stuff, i called her to confirm it and i was rigid on my points before she agreed to open up and beg me to forgive her.
I refused to continue the relationship because it was a kind of funny talking about the way she was using me to cheat.

Because am financially stable and i like giving out, she was like always making demands from me, and seeing her as a girlfriend i love so much, i couldn't resist giving her whatever she desires as far as she tells me something reasonable she is going to use them for. i was like her financial account and that month, almost half of my monthly budget was spent on her only.

I was doing all those things for her because she was able to blindfold me with much love and though it seemed to me like the love was real and straight from the heart, i never knew that she was just using me as her bank account and she kept showing me love like it was real (we never had sex! Bad for me.).
After i was able to find out what was really going, i have to start thinking about what i have to do.

Should i end the relationship? Or should i just continue?

Now that is the main point where this topic is heading to. The reason why you were used to cheat is not a problem, the problem is that you have been cheated on and you have been used to cheat on someone.

You are just like a third party in this situation because you have been used to serve a purpose.
What hurts you more is that you have been used to hurt the feelings of another person and come in between their relationship, but then what hurts most is the fact that you allowed yourself to grow in love with someone who lied to you and who is using you to cheat.

But then, you should not even think of staying in the relationship. You are not the only one involved with that person, who knows if you are 4 or 5 involved? So you see that you cant help such a situation thinking that it will get better and shift in your favour.
If you continue in the relationship, things might start getting worst because a lot criticism, break in trust and other things will start cueing up among you and the other person might get to know about what is happening, now you see that its going to be a lot of big problems to face.

There is no need being in a relationship with a liar and a cheater especially when your own characters and personality is of great value.
So the best to start with is to plan on ways you can bring the relationship to an end.

So here are a list of some guidelines to help you with ending such kinds of relationship affair and get a better life for yourself.

1. Accept the fact that you have been cheated on.

Sometimes when we find out that everything we were building have finally collapsed and when that happens, we refuse to believe and accept the reality of what is happening to us and make new decisions. When you now discover that you were cheated with and you were used for another purpose while to you, it seemed that you were the original

So when you find out that this is really happening to you, the first thing you can do to help yourself is to affect the fact that you have been cheated on, and that you have participated in a cheating act that will affect another individual.

So when you have accepted this fact without refusing to give in to the situation and change plans, them you will find out that taking the next step is nothing really hard to do.

2. Face Your Cheating Partner And Ask For Reasons.

They always say that the best way to tackle a problem is to face that problem and trace the root of that problem.
So meeting your affair partner and discussing your pain about happened is a good way to get yourself right and conscience clear about the dilemma you are going through.

Since you are now feeling the pain, guilt, anger and other things because of the occurrence, meeting the cheater and telling them how you felt and how things are now going with you is another way you can use in consoling yourself and pave a way out of the affair.

After that, you should be able to ask your affair partner the possible reasons why they decided to cheat with you and after that, you will find justification for whatever you participated in doing with him or her.

3. Distance Yourself Away and Avoid Your Partner.

Since you know that cheating is a very serious offence that always come with lots of consequence, the other next step you must take to help yourself is to distance yourself away from your cheating partner and break it off with him or her.

When you do that, you will find out that you finally have personal space and time to think about what is happening and to figure out your next plans for a better life.

When you are able to stay away from your partner who is cheating with you, it will also offer them more time to think about what they made you to indulge in and now, realising that they will be facing the consequence of what they have committed.

4. Start Erasing Their Thoughts And Memories in Your Life.

This is the most difficult aspect of the matter because at this point, you will find it hard to cope with the situation and move on with your life.

Anything that you know will remind you of the person should be totally deleted and done away with. Things like their social profiles, emails, messages, phone numbers, their gifts to you, clothes, gadgets, etc.
All these things which you know belongs to them must be done away with if you want to move on with your life.

5. Do Not Confront or Try Meeting Their Original Partners.

You already know that the girl or that man have been cheating with you and it happens that you know the original person they started with before you were involved.

So to manage and maintain your anger, dignity and respect, you should not go anywhere near that person whom you know that you were involved in cheating on him/her.

6. Determination on Your Decision.

Don't just say you are going to do all these things and take action as you are currently thinking in your mind. So you must first of all be determined in your heart and mind that you are surely going to leave their life because that is the only way you can help yourself become a better person.

Since indulging in the cheating act was not your original intention, having the determination to set yourself free and move on with your life is nothing hard to do, except if you want to continue in the act because you don't feel like going the right way, but altogether, these tips will work for your own good if you follow them practically and in the right manner.

Having relationships that lasts have always been the dreams of many people today, and while some were able to live up to the task and maintain long lasting relationships, some are unable to achieve such aims and are jumping from one relationship to the other.

Not every relationships lasts for a long period of time, and once you are able to keep a relationship that have taken a form of a long term relationship, it is always hard for you to endure the lots of new problems that keep arising from time to time in the relationship.

If you want to keep a relationship that will last for long, then there are some practical steps you must take to ensure that everything is kept moving in the right direction it should go.
First, there are some things that will hinder you from being able to keep a long term relationship that is going to last for a long time.

#Lack of Trust.

When you find it hard trusting that person you are in love with, then it will be a hard thing for you to keep the relationship because you must always find one reason or the other to show them that you are uncomfortable with something going on in the relationship.

So once that trust is not there between the both of you, when you cant trust each others actions and when your words cant tell if there is truth in whatever you do, then i don't think you are ready to start a relationship that will last for a long period of time.

#Listening to Gossips from Third Parties.

This one can totally hinder you from even wanting to embark on a relationship that will last for a long period of time.
When people keep feeding you with facts and lies about your partner, it will make you to position yourself at one corner and then, allow those people to be the mediators between you and your lover.

Gossips will only make you to see so many faults in your partner that will make you to keep thinking the opposite direction about them, in truth, you are going to think that they are helping you to get the relationship better, but inside of the circle, you are going to find out that those gossips and bad mouthing from third parties is actually causing you to loose focus in the relationship.

So now that you have known that these two things are vital for making you to slow down your progress in your relationship life.
So i know that you want to maintain your relationship so that it will last for a long period of time.

To achieve that aim, i have been able to put down these tips that can help you to build the kind of long term relationship you want. So here are the things that you should do to maintain your relationship to last for a long period of time.

1. Show your partner that you like something about them.

There are a lot of women who normally loves it when their man always compliment them on the things they find attractive to them.
So if your woman falls under this category, then telling her about those things you like when you see her do them, wear them or act in such ways can trigger the love and care between the both of you.

Also as a woman, you surely know that there are many things you find attractive about your man and they always make you happy, so telling him about them can make him learn that you are really appreciative about the efforts he puts on trying to be at his best.

So when you become good and better in voicing out the things you like about your partner, he or she will start to do the same and from that point, you will discover you get along with each other and enjoy that aspect when the compliments and appreciation keeps flowing between the both of you.

2. Interact With Your Partner About Your Dreams And Goals in Your Life.

Have you ever thought of the reason why you are in a relationship with that person? Maybe you don't know why.
When you are in a relationship, you should know that you are not just into it because you want someone to make you happy or you want to enjoy some benefits that are attached to relationships. If that's your view about the relationship, then you can never settle for a long term relationship that will last.

The reason for starting any relationship should be solely for the purpose of sharing your life with your partner. And your life means your happiness and your achievements, or your dreams and your challenges you face in your life.
Sharing your dreams and goals in life will bring about motivation from your partner and he/she will always want to be in support of your dreams in your life.

So you must never underestimate the importance of sharing your goals in life with your partner because it brings about motivation and desire from both ends to see that those dreams are achieved.

3. Build up your compatibility and have common interest between the both of you.

One reason why many relationships today are thrown into the dust is because the partners have no compatibility between them, that is to say, they have nothing in common that brings their heads together.

For example, if you always like watching adventure, while she likes to watch romantic movies, or she likes taking strawberry and you don't like taking it but prefer mangoes, or she likes going to parties and hanging out while you hate hanging out nor partying.

When you discover that most of your interests, likes and dislikes are always different and are not common between you, then you can hardly get along as you get divided in many occasions and it will not be too good.

So if you know you really love your partner and you want something long lasting between the both of you, then the best idea to use is to start building your compatibility because everything have shown that you are not compatible with each other.

How do you start this process? It is easy, you must learn to start liking what your partner likes, no matter how hard you find it, but finally having something in common that both of you can discuss about can work a great deal in bring your heads together and also get your brains to function and work in the same direction.

4. Frequent Communication and Body Languages Usage.

Without communication, no relationship can last for long, so you must never play with this idea of keeping in touch with each other.

When you go out to work and have no hope of seeing your partner until when its evening, calling them to know how they are doing is a great way to show care and concern for them.
Communicate and talk to each other about anything that involves the both of you.

If you are having any challenge in your life, then tell your partner about it, if there is something you don't like about your partner, make them know about it and if you have any insecurity about your partner, then you must communicate all these things to them so that both of you can learn about each others problems more better and handle them in the best way you can.

Don't underestimate the importance of touching your partner always, this can be in form of hugging, hands holding, shoulder leaning and kissing, other advanced touch situations are massaging of your partner's body. All these activities will make you not to have any boring experience about what you see other people doing in their relationships.

Before you can be able to hold a long term relationship, there must be that dedication and interest in achieving such height of relationships, and once you are able to practice all those tips given above, then you can be able to maintain your relationship and make it last for a long period of time.

I have once been in a relationship that i enjoyed but i later got very upset about something that happened to me personally and just because of that, i decided to look for a way to end the relationship.

The reason was not because i don't like my girlfriend anymore, and its not because she did anything wrong, but then something happened to me and because of that, i was determined to just end the relationship and get done with it once and for all.

But the truth of the matter was that i tried to end the relationship, but i could not. I tried the whole lot of lies i could think of but the breakup never happened, i looked for any exit door open but i could not get any and because of that, i have to consult my friend who was an expert whenever it comes to relationship matters.

That friend of mine was now able to give me new guidelines that i practiced and followed, and when i used them, i was now able to get out of the relationship with ease and i forgot about it completely.

From my experience, trying to end a relationship you have gone into is a very hard situation which can make you think that your life is going to end with that partner you are currently dating, and when you think of breaking up, there are two situations in which you can embark on a breakup plan.

Ending Your Relationship for No Reason.

Have you ever thought of this situation, it is the hardest form a breakup can take as there is no reason why you want to end the relationship.
You will be tempted to think and say to yourself that your partner loves you so much and will be hurt to see you go.

But right inside your heart, you know that you just want to breakup for a reason outside the relationship and not because of any other thing.
For example, you might want to breakup and end your relationship if you are relocating to another destination, or you are going away to school and you cant just continue the relationship because you cant meet again and have things as it uses to be.

Well this situation can come in different forms and depending on your own reason why you want to end the relationship, it might be harder for you to do so.

Ending Your Relationship For a Reason.

When you are ending the relationship for a reason, it is safer and more easier than when you are ending it for no reason.
There can be many reasons why you will want to end the relationship and those reasons are mostly accompanied with difficulties that arises inside the relationship.

Maybe you just found a new love and the kind of attention and attraction you get from them is greater than the kind you get from your present lover, and because of that, you just want to end the current relationship and start something new with another partner.

Or it happened that your significant other is not making you happy anymore in the relationship, and you get lots of misunderstanding with each other and as a result, you think that ending the relationship is the best option you are left with.

But whether you are wanting to end the relationship for a reason or for no reason, its no news that we normally suffer a great deal when wanting to initiate a breakup.
There must be that feeling of guilt, that rushing of memories, that remembrance of promises kept for each other, those happy romantic moments and those awesome sex nights you do enjoy in the relationship.

What makes a breakup more of a hard task is that your other partner will be your area of concentration and when that happens, you discover that you keep remembering everything that makes you happy with your partner and you mostly skip the bad memories about them.

So now, you want to just end the relationship right? And you have tried but you couldn't, or you just want to end it in a way that will not sound dramatic? Well are a list of those methods you can implement in other to end a relationship in no time.
(Also Read: How to Deal With a Breakup and Avoid Making Things Worst )

1. Stop Thinking About Your Partner.

The bes way you can start the process of ending a relationship you are no more interested in is to first stop thinking about your partner whom you now want to breakup with.
Any little thought about them can trigger your affection for that person and when you cant get them off your head, then you can hardly start the process of ending the relationship. Whenever you discover that you want to think about them, just distract yourself from thinking about them and think of something that will be of more importance to you than keep thinking about them.

2. Don't Call or Text Them, and Don't Reply Them either.

This one will also help you in initiating the breakup in a more easy and relaxed way while you just hold on to that reason why you want to end it.
When your partner calls or texts you, delete them and don't reply to any of them.
When you do that, you will be able to see that you are going easy and the end of the relationship will just be hanging around the corner, waiting for its due time.

3. Avoid any Thing that Belongs to Them Including Social Profiles.

Keeping any of the persons gifts that was given to you, or any thing you just know it belongs to the person can stop you and slow you down from fastening the whole process.

Their social profiles and accounts will also slow you down if you don't delete them from your profiles. Anything that will make you feel like you can still get in touch with each other can trigger affection in you and when that happens, it will just occur to you that you cant just end the relationship.

Also, you should just avoid anything that would remind you of them, places that reminds you of your partner should be forgotten and also, you should just avoid things that normally makes you to idealize them.

4. Call Them to Say "Its Over".

Sometimes, the reason why its always hard to end the relationship is because you cant communicate to your partner about it.
So when your partner starts seeing you change in your actions and they find you unaccessible from every angle, maybe it will send them a signal that something is happening to you. So when you observe it, you can now walk up to your partner and just tell them the word "I think its over between us, and the relationship have to end".

Now you should not just leave after saying that because it sounds rude and embarrassing, so you don't want to sound rude nor embarrassing, so what you do next after saying that is to tell them why you are leaving and ending the relationship.

You should try to be polite and convincing at this moment and make sure that you convince them that you can still be friends after the relationship is ended, i think that should be fair enough.

5. Finally, Don't Shake.

What i mean by this is that you should hold on to that reason why you want to end the relationship. You already know what you want to do and you are to take responsibility for whatever you decide that its best for you.

So as you embark on breaking up and ending your current relationship, you must ensure that the actions you choose do not come with regrets in the afterwards of the relationship breakup.

Have you ever thought of taking a break in your relationship because of one reason or the other?
If yes, then this article is for you, am going to give you insights about this topic and how it will work a big deal in bringing you and your lover together.

Sometimes when talking about relationships and taking a break from it, it does not go the direction of thinking that you are no more in love with your partner or that you are tired with the relationship.

I have faced so many problems in my relationship and as someone who knows much about relationships, i thought about taking a break in my relationship which i did, and after doing that, i got an impressive result and when we came back together, our love life was able to get better and we were once again happy with each other with the past confusions dealt with.

The main importance and the most significant part is what you do and what you engage in after taking a break from your relationship.
There are many problems that will arise in your relationship which will make you opt for taking a break from the relationship. But depending on the reason, the break can either lead to a breakup or it will strengthen the love between you and your partner.

The Need for Agreement Before Going Into a Relationship break.

Sometimes, before we go into a relationship break, we make mistakes of not having the agreement and go ahead from our partner before embarking on the break.

When you don't tell your partner about your intentions to go for a relationship break and also get them to agree that it will work for both of you together, your partner might misunderstand the reason why you are going for a break and when they don't get your concept for taking that break, it can lead to a breakup at the end.

So at first, you need to sit with your partner, and identify those difficulties that your relationship is facing, then tell your partner about the option you have opted to consider which in turn is going to make everything better.

After you have talked to your partner about this and have it that your partner have agreed that both of you should take a break from the relationship, then you must make sure that both of you hold on to the love you have for each other and not allowing it to slip away.

But when after talking to your partner about it, your partner was not able to show full support, then its best if you drop this option and consider taking up a new and better option because this point at a time is crucial and can either grow your relationship, or end it.

How Taking a Break Helps in Powering Up The Relationship.

Now after you have agreed to take a break in your relationship, you need to learn certain things you must do at that moment when you are now alone by yourself and then, waiting until when the tension, confusions and problems of the relationship are finally dealt with.

But before we tell you those things to do, here are the list of the ways taking a break will help you to improve your relationship and get it straight up on the tract of successful relationships.

One of the most heard reason why some people take breaks in relationship is because they need some Time to be Alone and think about things that makes the relationship so difficult to move on smoothly.

This is just one of thing you must first consider after you take a break from the relationship, you must know that you don't need to keep jumping up and down engaging in those things you were doing before you took the break in the relationship.

When you have the whole time alone, you feel more better and more happy because you finally have time to be yourself and think more about how to make things right in the relationship.

1. Motivation from both ends.

When you truly love your partner, then going on a relationship break can drive you nuts because it will be hard for you to bear those moments when you don't hear from your partner and get any tip as to what is happening to them.

Can you just imagine how you will feel when you know that both of you are still in love but cant hear from each other?
When you have this feeling in you, then you will be motivated towards making things right and replacing the unhappy events in your relationship and clear the ground for a better and happy reunion.

2. That Awkward Moment When You Are Missing Each Other.

When you take a relationship break, you must truly miss each other when the love is true between the both of you.
Before you took a break from the relationship, it may happen that you were always together and because of that, you may even think that you are not having personal space to be happy with yourself alone.

But after you take a break from the relationship, that is when you will find out and discover how you can not live without each other in your lives. So as a result of that you will be eager to get back with your partner and will be motivated to make them happy once again.

Why Honesty And Proper Communication Works Best.

When your love life gets though and hard to handle, and you just have taking a break as your own option to make things better, then its good and you can go ahead to do that and be rest assured that it is going to work.

But then, while taking a break works most of the times, it will be better if you consider sitting your partner down and having a conversation about the problems your relationship is facing and then, discussing about the possible ways you can use in making things better in your relationship.

So as you take this step of taking a break, don't play with the time in between the break and the reunion, and be careful because a break can lead to a break up if you don't handle it the right way.

Many relationships that are in existence today are suffering from this single act of cheating, and cheating has been one of the most prominent situation many people face in their relationships.

But why do people cheat in relationships? I keep asking myself this question and i found no definite answer to this cause, maybe they feel like cheating and they see it as a normal thing in any relationship.

Not everyone is perfect in dating, and sometimes cheating comes as a mistake and not intentional, also when your relationship starts getting boring or melting in sweetness, then your partner might want to get another someone to give them the hotness they need, even when they know they are still in love with you.

When you love someone and you find out that he or she is cheating on you, it always hurt and if you are just suspecting that your partner is cheating on you, then here are some clues to know that your partner is cheating on you in the relationship.

1. Hiding her calls and texts from you.

This is one sure sign that your partner is cheating behind your back.
When you started the relationship, your partner seemed confident enough to pick calls in your presence and even allow you access to her text messages.

But now you observe that your partner always get nervous when someone calls or texts their phone in your presence.
When they get a call when you are around and instead of answering the call in your presence, they go out to answer the call, then you should just take it that your partner is cheating in the relationship.

This is just a good sign that you must watch out for because if the caller was their mom, dad, friend, co-worker or any family member, they will not be afraid of answering those calls in your presence.

2. Your partner starts giving excuses for not hanging out with you.

This is another crucial point that will tell you your partner is cheating.
When the relationship was new and still alive, your significant other is always ready to hang out with you, they are always ready spear their free time for you and you always stay overnight together with each other.

But now, what are you getting? Is your significant other always giving you excuses for not hanging out with you? Do they always tell you they are having work overtime and so can not hangout? Or do your partner find excuses not to spend much time together with you anymore, or just keep making excuses everyday and always?

When these excuses come up almost every day or every time, then chances are that your partner is spending all those moments with the person they are cheating with.

If your partner is not cheating, the relationship will always be growing and things will keep getting fun. But if the other is cheating, you find out that the relationship is dying down and things keep getting worst.

3. Your partner is now more secretive and don't talk about personal matters with you.

Normally when a relationship is still in good shape and condition, there are no secrets and even the past secrets are told in the course of the relationship, and your partner will always tell you about their personal matters that they cant make known to others.

But what now happens and what will tell you that your other is cheating?
They stop telling you anything personal and they refuse to tell you any new secret about them and about the things happening behind the door.

That's just a good sign to tell you that your partner is cheating on you because if they still love you and are not stabbing you from the back, they will have no reason to hold secrets  and keep things from you.

4. False accusation and complaints.

When your partner is cheating on you, that is when you find them accusing you of what you know you are not doing, and you keep hearing them complaining about every little mistake you do.

The most common of this false accusation is when your partner keep saying you are cheating and suspecting that you are doing something at their back.

All these accuses are done in a bid to make you leave or make you end the relationship so they can continue enjoying their new life with a new partner.
When you see this sign occurring and reoccurring, then just know that your significant other has something cooking at the back door. 

5. Your partner takes new interest in appearance.

Maybe you use to know your partner as someone who does not do too much of shaving and dressing up always as a man, or as a woman, you know that your girlfriend previously do not always do lots of make ups or go dress shopping always.

But when all these habits change and you recently found out that your partner just took new interest in their looks and they like dressing up, then its possible that your partner just saw someone new and then, they are trying to keep up on their looks so that the other new person will find them attractive and nice.

6. Change in sexual interest and body languages.

There are two forms this changes can take, it can be that your partner is no more interested in having sexual activities with you, or you find out that your partner does not want you to be touching them again.

This will tell you that they are no more interested in you, and then all those other signs are already there and when you add them up together, you will find out that loss of attraction have taken over and your partner hardly allows you to even kiss, not to talk of taken of their shirts for you.

The problem here is that no relationship can be fun without the normal touches and body language actions, and when those things start to be absent in the relationship, then you must check out for the possible reasons why it is happening.

Also, sex is another thing altogether, and when you have been indulging in sexual activities and just of recent, your partner no more have interest in getting intimate with you, then they have lost the pleasure they have in you and maybe they have gotten someone new they invest their whole sexual energy on.

These are just some of those signs that if you start noticing them in your relationship, then you should just know that your partner is cheating in the relationship.

And sometimes, it does not really imply that your partner is cheating in the relationship when those things happen, but when they do happen always and they keep occurring repeatedly, then its easy to say that your partner is cheating on you.

Breakups are nothing new in the relationship world, and i believe you know how a breakup can turn someone into a state that explains that a lot of things are happening in the persons mind.

Emotional lost and confusing moments always characterise most of the breakups today, and you find out that the person is so hurt, lost of feelings is on the high and people do questionable things when ever they are experiencing a breakup.

Depending on how the breakup happened, it can cause you to be either emotionally weak and miserable, or it gets you angry and makes you act in stupid ways that will make you feel more hatred for the other.

There are many things that if you allow them to get over you and carry out those things, that they will keep backfiring at you and you will live with regrets in your life for even a more prolonged time that you never thought of.

The reason why a breakup can harm you more than doing good to you is because of the fact  that it takes a long period of time before it heals. It can even last for a long period of time more than some physical injuries people do sustain. But sometimes, we are the main reason why we take too long before healing from a heart break.

When you allow yourself to keep thinking and behaving in a manner that will make you think that you are helping yourself to forget about your ex, then you are not doing yourself any good but you are making your situation get from bad to worst.

When you use a natural means to approach a breakup and get it over you, then you might not be doing yourself any good as you lack in a proper and a better emotional cleanness.

Here are a list of what you should avoid and things you should do after a breakup so that you can give yourself time to heal and recover quickly.

#1. Forget your mistakes.

When you keep thinking about your mistakes from your just ended relationship and you keep disturbing yourself and rethinking about those mistakes, it makes you to keep regretting your mistakes.

And when this happens, then nothing is going to heal, and you will only keep regretting and brooding over all those things that caused your breakup.

2. Don't condemn yourself.

You already know that you have been hurt and your heart is suffering from the fact that it was hurt by another person. When you keep blaming yourself for your mistakes and the things that brought about the breakup, then you will only be adding more sorrows to the one you are having now.

The best treatment you can give to your wounded self is to be compassionate about yourself and just consolidate yourself and allow everything to pass away.

3. Don't try to text or call your ex after the breaking.

Stalking is very bad and it will cause you to keep remembering everything, i mean everything about you and your ex.
When you keep bordering your ex with phone calls and texts, it means that you are not over the relationship.

And when you do that, its possible that your ex don't just want you back anymore in their life, and when you cant stop reaching out to your ex when they are no more into you, that will just hurt you the more and keep causing you to regret your actions since before you broke up.

4. Don't over do anything after the breakup.

This can be in form of drinking too much, partying, hooking up or eating your self out.
You might think that doing all these things will make you feel better and forget about what is happening to you.

It will surely work, but will not last for up to 5 hours, and once you are back to your senses, you discover everything turns worst than it was before and you will keep being in bondage of your ex relationship thoughts.

So you must avoid this habit when you are heart broken after a breakup, you should just calm yourself down and give yourself the best consolation you can.

5. Never jump into a new relationship immediately after a breakup.

Sometimes, in a desperate bid to find solutions to our wounded soul and sorrowful heart, we go into a new relationship immediately after a breakup with our ex.

It will not work out the way you think because it happened that you just went on a rebound because you want to get over the just ended relationship and you were still feeling hurt.

So you will want your new partner to meet up to your immediate needs and you will find out that whenever your new partner makes a mistake, you immediately compare them to your ex and then, everything just seem not to be at its best as you expected.

6. Going on a break for sometime.

This is just a nice and good idea that can help you to recover from a breakup within a short time and move on with your life.

There are things that you enjoy doing when you were still with your ex, and there were places you normally like going to, so the best way to get healed from your past relationship wounds is to take a break from doing those things and going to those places.

Also, you must not rush into any new relationship after a breakup, but the best thing to do is to start enjoying your single life and freedom by meeting with new friends and new people, and talk to every woman or man that comes your way and do it with a clean and happy mood.

By so doing, you can be able to start regaining all your lost emotions and feelings that makes you the confident and happy man you used to be before.

A breakup will be hard on you only if you have never experienced it before or that you were deeply committed to your partner before things went sore.

To bring it all to close, being happy with who you are is the best idea to carry yourself on and after that, you should allow people in and out of your life because not all relationships are meant to last for a long period of time.

So once you start dating a multiple times, you can be able to learn that not everyone that comes into your life is meant to stay in it.